The Meaning of Life, Spring 2026

This is the course blog for Phil 3375, The Meaning of Life, at Southern Methodist University. Contact: jkazez@smu.edu

Wednesday, April 22, 2026

Laughing

 AGENDA
  • Nagel, "The Absurd"

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This module -- people dissatisfied in some way with all the meaning-in-life authors
  1. We should be seeking (and finding?) transcendence -- John Cottingham (2021)
  2. However much you meet the conditions for meaning, your life will still be absurd -- Thomas Nagel (1971)
  3. Sorry, but you can't have "ultimate meaning," and that's sad  -- Rivka Weinberg (2026)
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INTRO

Nagel: "Most people feel on occasion that life is absurd, and some people feel it vividly and continually." (p. 716)
  • Do you feel that life is absurd?  When?
  • What does "absurd" mean?
  • Is "absurd" the opposite of "meaningful"?
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SECTION I
Some triggers for the feeling that life is absurd... that don't really make much sense

  • Life is absurd because "what we do today won't matter in a million years (p. 716)
    • Nagel: what happens in a million years doesn't matter today
  • Life is absurd because "we are tiny specks in the infinite vastness of the universe" (p. 717) 
    • Nagel: life would still be absurd if the universe was smaller!
  • Life is absurd because there is no "final end" or "ultimate point."  (p. 717)
    • Nagel: none is needed, so that doesn't make life absurd  (p. 717)

"The standard arguments for absurdity appear therefore to fail as arguments. Yet I believe they attempt to express something that s difficult to state, but fundamentally correct." (p. 718)


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SECTION II
Nagel's account of the absurdity of life

p. 719
  • Absurdity = having the engaged inside view AND the doubting outside view all the time; oscillating between the two; not being able to settle on one or the other

Examples of this dual perspective (serious and engaged on the inside, doubtful from the outside)
  • Love and Death (Woody Allen and Diane Keaton 1975) --  discussing philosophy seriously while also being aware of how it seems from the outside
  • Listers (2024) -- birding seriously while also looking at birding from the outside
  • This dual perspective is very common in comedies....
More examples of the dual perspective?
  • inside: serious and engaged 
  • outside: doubtful, amused
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SECTION III
Trying to be 100% serious by playing a role in a larger enterprise ... it's not going to totally eliminate the external, doubting stance

  • You might try to be 100% serious by being involved in an enterprise such as "service to society, the state, the revolution, the progress of history, the advance of science, or religion and the glory of God" (p. 720)
  • But just being part of a larger enterprise isn't enough. What if you learned you were being raised as meat for aliens?
    p. 721
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SECTION IV
Why not permanently adopt the outside standpoint and take nothing seriously?
  • We can't do that
  • Nagel is NOT saying doubt is any more correct than engagement.  Life is absurd because both engagement and doubt are inescapable.  
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Section V SKIP
Oscillating between the standpoints is like feeling both certain and skeptical after studying epistemological skepticism

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Section VI
Is it really important to escape absurdity?
  • A mouse's life is not absurd...it's something special about us that our lives are absurd
  • You could try to have that detachment all of the time, so you wouldn't oscillate between the two standpoints.  
  • Your detached life wouldn't be as absurd as most, but certainly wouldn't be meaningful.
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Nagel section VII
How to live with absurdity
  1. suicide ... that assumes absurdity is a huge problem and it's not actually a problem at all!
  2. bravery, defiance (Albert Camus) ... again, that assumes it's a problem
  3. acceptance ... "absurdity is one of the most human things about us: a manifestation of our most advanced- and interesting characteristic" (p. 726)
  4. "we can approach our absurd lives with irony instead of heroism or despair" (p. 727)

The ironic life -- incongruity between two attitudes
I love it ... but isn't it kind of silly ... this is great ... but is it great? ... I care .... but should I care?

The wholehearted life

I love it.

Must we live ironically all the time?  Is everything subject to doubt or just some parts of life? 

 



Monday, April 20, 2026

Transcendence

 AGENDA

  1. Last week of class--we have class meetings on Monday May 4 AND Tuesday May 5. Exam 3 is on Tuesday May 5.
  2. Our next module
  3. Cottingham
  4. Next reading: pay attention to notations 

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Recap: Meaning in life authors

  1. Our meaning IN life authors set aside the meaning OF life -- worries about why we are here, what's the point, etc.
  2. They focus on which choices, attitudes, activities, etc., are needed for meaning IN life
    • Taylor--just need passion for something
    • Wolf--need passion plus objective worth
    • DeBres--need to recount true life stories (etc)
    • Setiya--need presence during atelic activities (etc)
    • Kauppinen--need ground projects
  3. They all think you could meet the condition and have "meaning in life"
    • example of someone with meaning in life: Tolstoy, before his crisis began
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Next group of authors: Ultimate Meaning
  1. Dissatisfied with meaning in life proposals
  2. But for very different reasons
John Cottingham --"The Meaning of Life and Transcendence" (2022)

Thomas Nagel -- "The Absurd" (1971)

Rivka Weinberg -- "Ultimate Meaning: We Don't Have it, We Can't Get it, and We Should Be Very, Very, Sad" (2021) -- Also her new book The Meaning of It All:  Ultimate Meaning, Everyday Meaning, Cosmic Meaning, Death, and Time

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"Transcendence and Meaning In Life" (2022) -- in the collection below



Cottingham's main points

(1) "Meaning in life" literature is inadequate
  • "asking about meaning in life invites us to take a more pragmatic and piecemeal approach, and to look at various activities and pursuits within human life that we may find fulfilling or regard as meaningful. This latter approach typically takes what might be called a radically 'immanentist' perspective: the sources of meaning are to be sought entirely within the sphere of our purely human pursuits and activities." (p. 1)

  • terminology: immanent (within) vs. transcendent (beyond)

(2) We do (and should) experience human incompleteness

  1. Existential dimension. We are "thrown" into existence (Heidegger)
  2. Cosmological dimension. "That we are here at all, that the universe exists at all, is a profound mystery that we long to fathom, but we know we will never, and can never, solve. (p. 2)

  3. Finitude dimension. "we are keenly aware of our limits, our puniness, our mortality, a tiny speck, as Pascal put it, against an infinite backdrop" (p. 2)  VIDEO
  4. Morality dimension. We are morally flawed, subject to moral conflicts
(3) We have an urge for completeness and transcendence

"As finite creatures we reach out anxiously towards the infinite, which we know we can never encompass. We might say that our human mode of being is an interrogative one. What we long for is something that will answer this anxious question, that will bring us completion. If we could have an answer, then we might know the meaning of human life. But – and here is the rub – we also know that such an answer is beyond our human capacity to achieve. So there is an inherent instability or tension at the heart of the question of the meaning of life: we long for it, but we know we cannot have it. We are mired in immanence, yet we yearn for transcendence." (p. 4)

(4) Religious rituals express the longing for transcendence --

"Many traditional spiritual practices can plausibly be understood as aiming to do precisely this. They do not produce a propositional answer to the puzzle of life’s meaning, but they offer a series of formalized procedures and rituals whereby human beings are able to express how they stand in relation to the mystery that confronts them. By enacting their longing for the transcendent, they turn what might have been angry or helpless puzzlement or nihilistic despair into a joyful expression of hope, and thereby find a way of reaching towards the transcendent meaning that is longed for." (p 4) 

  •  Catholic offertory prayer  VIDEO
  • note he says they express hope, and not necessarily firm belief!     

(5) Life isn't fully meaningful if we don't express the longing for transcendence

"Nothing in the ritual, to be sure, can guarantee that there is indeed such a  transcendent source; and nothing, to be sure, compels us in logic to adopt the path of spiritual praxis (let alone to do so in the specific form described in this liturgical example). But if we resolve to turn our back on any such path, we will, in the absence of some alternative vehicle for expressing the longing in question, be shutting down something in our nature that is not easily silenced. We will have to fall back on purely immanent sources of meaning, which may of course bring great satisfactions in their wake, but which will leave part of our nature unprovided for. And the life of a creature who longs for transcendence but is mired in immanence cannot be a fully meaningful one." (p. 6) 

  •  note that he alludes to "alternative vehicles"
  • are there alternative vehicles?
  • Tolstoy's life wasn't fully meaningful until his crisis and his longing for transcendence

(6) Transcending ourselves by aiming for something better and grander is a partial solution to the sense of incompleteneess, but "does not capture the deeper character of the human urge for transcendence" (p. 7)

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More religious rituals

Meditation -- Thich Nhat Hanh -- path to kingdom of God and the pure land 

Jewish blessings





Friday, April 17, 2026

Seizing the Day (3)

 AGENDA

  1. Ethics minor
  2. Preview: Ultimate Meaning
  3. Kauppinen, part 2


Cottingham -- dissatisfied with "meaning in life" authors we've been reading -- talks about urge for transcendence -- we'll discuss religious meaning Monday

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Presence...living in the moment ... being atelic ... focussing on the here and now ... savoring the present ("presentism" for short)

  1. Setiya and Hanh: this will add more meaning to your life
  2. Kauppinen's interpretation of Setiya: this is the only thing that adds meaning to your life (2017 book he doesn't say this, 2014 article maybe he says this)
Kaupppinen is critic of presentism

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Kauppinen's four objections to presentism

Based on connection between meaning and pride, admiration, etc.

  1. "if someone’s life is meaningful, then attitudes like sense of purpose, agential pride, fulfilment, agential admiration, and elevation are merited by it"  (p. 7)
  2. People don't merit these attitudes based on their atelic moments.  THEREFORE,
  3. Atelic moments aren't meaningful.
Based on meaning role models

  1. People with meaningful lives are inspiring role models. (Martin Luther King, Oprah Winfrey....)
  2. People aren't inspiring role models on the basis of their atelic moments. THEREFORE,
  3. Atleic moments aren't meaningful.
Based on what cures an existential crisis
  1. Finding meaning "cures" an existential crisis -- Is life worth living? What's the point? Does anything really matter if all our efforts come to nothing?
  2. Atelic moments don't "cure" an existential crisis. THEREFORE,
  3. Atelic moments aren't meaningful.
  • It's A Wonderful Life: George Bailey's (Jimmy Stewart) crisis cured by realizing what a huge difference he's made in other people's lives
  • Then again Manhattan: Isaac (Woody Allen) lists things that make life worth living,. His list suggests a variety of atelic activities.
Groucho Marx, Willie Mays, Mozart’s "Jupiter Symphony" (2nd movement), Louis Armstrong’s "Potato Head Blues," Swedish movies, Flaubert’s Sentimental Education, Marlon Brando, Frank Sinatra, Cézanne's apples and pears, crabs at Sam Wo's, and Tracy's face.

Futiity objection

  1. If a telic activity is pointless and futile, "enjoying the process" is also pointless and futile.
  2.  All our telic activities are pointless and futile (says Setiya*). THEREFORE,
  3. Enjoying the process is also pointless and futile (Setiya has to say).
    * Does he really say this?
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Kauppinen's positive picture: the project-centered life
  • Can you live that life without constant deflation and an impending midlife crisis?

Different kinds of projects

(A) Check-box projects -- once goal is achieved, it disappears from your life -- you want to "have done" the thing -- you could approach any goal this way 
  • I want to have visited Machu Pichu
(B) Fertile projects -- reaching one goal leads to setting another goal -- so when you reach a goal the project isn't expelled from your life 
  • reaching a level in a video game 
  • getting a degree in philosophy
  • reading Anna Karenina
(C) Prospective ground projects -- major life goals -- aimed at the future -- like a treasure hunt 
  • owning a house
  • having children
  • publishing a book

(D)  Reflexive ground projects -- major life goals -- no simple future aim  -- sources of meaning
"Instead of being directed towards a temporally distant outcome, they aim at an end that is realized to some degree at each moment of the project’s duration, insofar as one is successful," (p. 16). 

 "One distinctive feature of reflexive aims is thus that when you adopt one, you take responsibility for something putatively valuable that can’t be brought about once and for all, without need for further activity." (p. 17)

Dedication to the project is a Service life as opposed to an Adventurous life. 

    • parenting
    • family
    • marriage
    • governing a country
    • being friends with someone
    • protecting and loving nature
    • advocating for racial equality
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Engaging in reflexive ground projects: 
Example: chatting with your grandmother

Telic: completable

Strongly atelic: can't complete, no connection to a long-term project (e.g. going for a walk), "living in the moment"

 Weakly atelic: can't complete act, but connected to a long-term project (p. 20) 

"Taking responsibility for a practice-dependent value is not 'living in the moment', even

though it is not future-oriented in the same way as pursuing a prospective aim. (p. 23)


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Kauppinen says: reflexive ground projects are (or can be) meaningful

They meet Kauppinen's three conditions for being meaningful--
  1. The can merit admiration & pride (if they're worthwhile projects)
  2. Our "meaningful life" role models are known for their ground projects.
  3. You can cure an existential crisis by engaging in ground projects.
Bottom line: find your reflexive ground project, don't look for meaning in disconnected strongly atelic activities!

"meaning is to be found in the various ways of making large-scale progress, from building on what we’ve learned to deepening our understanding, and in the various ways of taking responsibility for valuable tasks that are never completed but can be performed better or worse. (p. 25)


Wednesday, April 15, 2026

Seizing the Day (2)

 AGENDA

  1. Presentation
  2. Kauppinen

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Antti Kauppinen-- "Against Seizing the Day"

 Kauppinen's interpretation of Setiya based on two of Setiya's writings
  1. He draws on Setiya's book Midlife (2017) -- the chapter we read
  2. he also draws on an earlier article -- "The Midlife Crisis" (2014)
2017 book: to get over your midlife crisis ...
  1. Do ontinue some telic activities
  2. But enjoy the process (Atelic1)
  3. Also enjoy the counterparts of your telic activities (Atelic2)
  4. Also enjoy other atelic activities (Atelic3)
  5. Be present during these atelic activities; learn to be present by meditating
2014 article (see p. 16-17)... talks more about meaning and makes stronger claims
  1. Telic activities do have value, but....
  2. The ideal life would be completely focused on atelic activities
    • do some writing instead of writing a book (it may turn into a book)
    • do some hiking instead of hiking the Appalachian Trail (you may hike the whole trail)
    • do some dating instead of looking for someone to marry (you may get married)
  3. The ideal life is just an ideal, not something to strive fo
Kauppinen interprets Setiya as saying...
  1. atelic activities are meaningful! 
  2. only atelic activities are meaningful 

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Kauppinen argues for the opposite
what gives your life meaning is your "ground projects," such as "parenting, running, a business, or governing a country" (p. 2) 
"On this picture, meaning isn’t to be found in the here and now, in seizing the day. It is instead a deserved reward of bending the arc of one’s life in the direction of the good by building on past efforts or by keeping a good thing going even when the going gets tough." (p. 3) 
"if someone’s life is meaningful, then attitudes like sense of purpose, agential pride, fulfilment, agential admiration, and elevation are merited by it (see Metz 2001, Wolf 2010, Kauppinen 2013). The problem with throwing projects to the wind and focusing one’s life on strongly atelic activities, then, is that they don’t warrant such attitudes. "(p. 7)
"To be sure, we sometimes use the language of meaning in other ways as well. For example, we may describe certain experiences, events, people, places, or objects as meaningful for us. What this kind of talk says is that these things resonate with us – they give rise to some deep feelings, not just pleasure, for example. There is some temptation to think that a life is meaningful to the extent that it contains such meaningful encounters. But I want to keep this sense of meaningfulness separate from having the kind of sense of purpose or point to our lives that wards off existential concerns (Why am I here? What does it matter if I die tomorrow? What’s the point of all this toil? So what if I’d never existed?)." (p. 7)
"If the angel in It’s a Wonderful Life had reminded George Bailey that he will have a deep experience if he goes to see the Sistine Chapel or dances with his wife, it would have done nothing to stop him from jumping off the bridge – his concern wasn’t that nothing resonated with him, but that he had failed those who depended on him. Focusing on the aptness of meaning-relevant attitudes should help make clear we’re addressing the right question." (p. 7)

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It's a Wonderful Life -- George Bailey is on the verge of suicide but an angel shows him how much of a difference he's made to his community and he realizes life is worth living.



Manhattan -- Isaac is thinking about what makes life worth living and lists a bunch of things that simply resonate with him!


Monday, April 13, 2026

Seizing the Day

AGENDA

  1. What is meaning? (recap)
  2. Presence
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Recap: What is meaning? What makes a life more meaningful?

  1. Union with the infinite (Tolstoy)
  2. Having a passion for whatever you're doing (Taylor...but this is just subjective meaning)
  3. Subjective attraction to things that are objectively attractive (Wolf)
  4. Telling our life stories, which makes us intelligible to ourselves and others  (DeBres says this is just one source of meaning)
  5. Presence (Setiya, Hanh)
What is presence?
  • living in the present, seizing the day, focusing on the here and now
  • mindfulness, awareness, paying attention
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Authors discussing presence 

Kieran Setiya -- last section of chapter from Midlife ("Living in the Present") we already read 
Thich Nhat Hanh -- a Vietnamese Buddhist monk and author -- You are Here: Discovering the Magic of the Present Moment 
Antti Kaupinnen --  "Against Seizing the Day" 
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Setiya: how to make progress
  1. Phase 1: You're living very telically 
  2. Phase 2: You have a midlife crisis
  3. Phase 3: You shift to atelic activities 
  4. Phase 4: You're "present" during these atelic activities 
How can you learn to be more present?  Why should you be more present? He starts off discussing Buddhism and meditation.

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A little intro to Buddhism--




The Four Noble Truths (four points quoted from Setiya p. 146)
  1. Life is suffering
  2. The source of suffering is attachment 
  3. The solution is to give it up.  
  4. The way to do so is the Eightfold Path 
How to give up attachment?
  • No more desiring
  • No more aversion
  • "Absorb the revolutionary metaphysics of 'anatta' or no-self" (p. 147)
  • Meditation ... for serenity and insight (p. 147)
Meditation (p. 147)

"There are stages to the meditative process, which begins with quiet, seated concentration on the breath—breathing in and out—­ felt calmly, almost musically in the chest or throat or nose. There is awareness of bodily sensations, sounds, suspended and detached from the need for active response. There is awareness of one’s passing thoughts and feelings, equally suspended, equally detached, their ebb and flow, transient and separable. And there is, in a certain phase of meditation, an

intuitive, not merely intellective grasp of impermanence, suffering, and no-­self: I do not exist. This is Buddhist enlightenment." (p. 147)

Thich Nhat Hanh reading -- much more detail about meditation and what it achieves (we'll come back to that)

 

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Presence through meditation: what is its value, according to Setiya?

  • Argues against Buddhist ideas like no-self.
"Meditation fosters an intuitive, not merely intellective grasp of the meaning and value of atelic activities." (p. 151) 
"The point I am making here is that it is not sufficient for meaning in life that one attend to the present, to the atelic activities in which you are engaged. It matters what you are doing, not just that you are doing it in the Now." (p. 153) 
"Meditating on your breath, your body, the sounds in your environment is a way to train your appreciation of simple atelic activities: breathing, sitting, listening. There is value in these activities, though not enough for a meaningful life. Attending to their presence is not an end in itself. It is a way to develop your capacity to be in the moment, so as to appreciate the atelic counterparts of the telic activities that matter to you. In order to do this, you must overcome the magnetic pull of the telic orientation. You must prevent your attention from being absorbed by projects. You need the mastery of mental focus, of your own thoughts and feelings, that is nurtured by mindfulness meditation." (p. 153)

So....choose valuable activities AND do them with presence
  • Sisphus rolling boulders -- no point in doing with presence!
  • doom scrolling
  • looksmaxxing
  • going for a walk
  • listening to music

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Suggestion: atelic activities are not all equally conducive to presence. Even if you meditate, you will find that presence comes naturally in some cases, but is hard in others.

During what activities do you find presence comes easily and naturally?  Poll

Activities designed to foster presence: the Japanese tea ceremony



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Some terms Setiya uses when discussing what has value--
  • Ameliorative value -- something is bad and you're fixing or overcoming it
  • Existential value -- something is worth doing, nothing bad preceded it
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  • a Buddhist monk, so finds genuine Buddhist value in meditation (not surprising!)
  • meditation & presence allow you to enter the Pure Land & the Kingdom of God
Hanh p. 9


Hanh p. 12

  • Hanh p. 22




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Thursday, April 9, 2026

Narrativity Skepticism



 AGENDA

  1. Strawson's anti-narrativism
  2. Next week: living in the present, Buddhist ideas, plus a critic

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Narrativists vs. Anti-narrativists

Narrativists' views

  1. Narrativism as a theory of human psychology: we continually narrate our lives, building our unified life stories
  2. Narrativism as a theory of the self: we ARE our stories
  3. DeBres's account of meaning in life: the fitting story view.
  4. Other narrativist accounts of meaning in life
    • Relationism
    • Progressive relationism
    • Recountism
    • Agency recountism
  5. Narrativism as an account of the good life: you're life is going well to the extent you have a life story

Anti-narrativists -- Galen Strawson

"I am not a story"
  1. Presents what narrativists say about human psychology and the self (1&2)
  2. Argues that it's not true of most people
"Narrativism and meaning in life" (not a required reading)
  • Rejects narrativist accounts of meaning in life, such as DeBres
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  1. We'll first read the yellow passages --narrativist ideas
    • you are constantly telling your story
    • your life has narrative cohesion
    • you're the author of your life and the chief protagonist
  2. Then we'll read the purple passages -- anti-narrativist ideas
    • Life starts over every day
    • Little or no focus on the past
    • multiple selves, to some degree in conflict
He's making psychological claims
  • We're each Narrative or Non-narrative
  • Some are Narrative
  • Most are non-narrative
Let's find out!  POLL

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Application to meaning in life -- Strawson, "Narrativity and Meaning in Life"



What is he arguing?

  1. Most of us are Non-narrative. (Strawson believes)
  2. If a Non-Narrative person tells a life story with a conventional narrative form, it is bound to be mostly false.
  3. A mostly false story can't add meaning to life (DeBres agrees). THEREFORE,
  4. For most of us, recounting our life stories isn't meaningful.
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An amusing anti-narrative perspective from Tyler Cowen


Wednesday, April 8, 2026

Life Stories

 AGENDA

  1. DeBres overview
  2. Discussion
  3. Next time: Galen Strawson, critic
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Helena DeBres, "Narrative and Meaning in Life"

Recap: Four versions of the view that narrative adds meaning to life
  1. Relationism--the actual narrative relations add meaning to our lives
  2. Progressive relationism--the actual narrative relations add meaning to our lives provided that the narrative is progressive
  3. Recountism--recounting our life stories adds meaning to our lives
  4. Agency recountism--recounting our life stories adds meaning to our lives when we are autonomous protagonists of our stories and telling the story is therefore empowering
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DeBres's main idea
  • Parallel
    • Seeking meaning OF life...you want the universe to be intelligible
    • Seeking meaning IN life ... you want yourself to be intelligible
  • By telling our own life stories we make our own lives intelligible to ourselves and others
  • So telling our life stories contributes to meaning in life (recountism)
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Her theory of meaning in life: The Fitting Story View 

"Fitting Story. Telling a story about one’s life that is (i) true and (ii) adheres

to a set of (salient) narrative conventions, contributes to the meaningful-

ness of one’s life. It does so by making the life more intelligible to oneself

and others, thereby enabling the goods of understanding and community." (p. 562)


Clarifications
  1. The story must be true--"a wildly inaccurate --one involving major fabrications, distortions, or omissions--can't render the life that it treats intelligible" (p. 562)
  2. The narrative must adhere to narrative conventions...otherwise, does not increase intelligibility

Theory is very modest --

"Although I have argued here that recounting one’s life story contributes to meaning, I haven’t argued that doing so is necessary for a meaningful life or sufficient for a life of

superlative meaning. In fact, I deny both of those claims. I believe that the bulk

of meaning in life is supplied not by “fitting stories,” but directly by the projects, relationships, activities, and experiences that are the stuff of which those

stories are told. Possession of such goods could render a life meaningful even

if narrative intelligibility were absent and lack of them could render a life substantially meaningless even if narrative intelligibility were present. Relatedly, although I believe that narrative addresses some deep and widespread human concerns, I make no claim here that all humans experience those concerns or that all humans find narrative a useful response to them." (p. 570)


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Objections to the Fitting Story View

(1) Too many cases where narrative doesn't add meaning to a life
  • Imagine  Sisyphus continually telling his life story...still a meaningless life
  • Imagine Choppy Life continually telling his life story...doesn't add much meaning
DeBres's reply

(2) Narrative view shouldn't have a truth requirement
  • Life stories are often only partially true
  • We embellish, we forget, we shape our own stories, we deceive ourselves
DeBres's reply

(3) The most meaningful lives break free from narrative conventions

DeBres's reply: even very unique lives can be told within existing narrative conventions

(4) This theory gives bad advice--that we should live in such a way that we have good stories to tell.

DeBres's reply

(5) Clover and Daisy do all the same things, but only Clover tells her life story. Doesn't seem plausible that Clover's life is more meaningful. 

DeBres's reply

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DISCUSSION -- WORKBOOK
Suppose that telling your life story does contribute meaning to your life. Does the story have to be true or do you just have to believe it's true?

Example of an untrue life story
  • This American Life, episode 504 (Michael Lewis)
  • Emir Kamenika, his story of how he got into college
  • He came to the US from war torn Bosnia
  • Goes to a rough high school in Atlanta
  • Mrs Ames assigns an essay...he can't really speak English...plagiarizes an essay he had translated out of a book he stole from a library in Bosnia
  • Mrs Ames writes him a letter of recommendation, he gets into Harvard
  • He goes on to become a professor in the business school at University of Chicago
  • His life story, which he loves to tell, is about the shameful essay and how Mrs Ames saved his life
  • The producer brings Emir and MrsAmes together
  • She says his story is false!  His trengths would have made him succeed without her and she doesn't even remember the essay.
  • Later on he just keeps telling his story about the essay and Mrs Ames saving his life

Monday, April 6, 2026

Life Stories

AGENDA

  • Recap 
  • Wolf objections
  • Helene De Bres, narrative views
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What is meaning?

  • We will be looking at 7-8 different views
  • By the end, hopefully you will find one you find plausible
  • see tab 

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Susan Wolf discussion

Meaning arises when TWO conditions are met:

    1. Subjective attraction: you love what you're doing, you're passionate about something
    2. Objective attractiveness: the thing is worth doing, it makes sense not just to you but to a wider community
Nobody seems to like this view!  Why not?

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Helene De Bres (De Bray)

  • Other theories (Taylor, Wolf) are not wrong, but incomplete
  • A further element of meaning is: narrative
Two lives that both meet Wolf's two conditions

Choppy life -- 50 separate activities that meet both conditions, chosen on a whim


Cohesive life -- e.g. Tolstoy




If cohesive life is more meaningful, what is this additional element of meaning?  
  • Narrative coherence
  • None of our authors has talked about this so far
Part 1: many possible narrative views of meaning
Part 2: De Bres's proposal 
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What is a narrative? Narratives ....

  1. represent "the unfolding of events over time"
  2. display "connections between the events depicted"
  3. they highlight "continuity and coherence"
  4. "they focus on agency: the motivations of agents and the nature and consequences of their actions"
  5. a story has an intended significance--there's an interpretation, a point of view
Little stories, big stories
  1. Story of my weekend (whatever that might be!)
    • Narrativists not really talking about these kinds of stories
  2. My life story (so far)
    • Tolstoy's life story (as told in Confession)
    • No Moccasin's life story (as told by her husband)
    • Other life stories?  People you mentioned in RR22
      • Martin Luther King (3)
      • Oprah Winfrey
      • Elon Musk
      • John Lennon
      • Basshar Al-Assad (leader of Syria)
      • Nelson Mandela (3)
      • Jesus
      • Mohammad
      • Steve Jobs
      • Napoleon Bonaparte
      • Che Guevara
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How does a life story add meaning to someone's life? (four views)

1. "Relationism. The holding of certain [narrative] causal relations among parts of a life contributes to the meaningfulness of that life." (DeBres, p. 549)
    • choppy life --no causal relations
    • cohesive life--Tolstoy
      • youthful debauchery --> reforms himself
      • reading literature --> experimenting with writing
      • crisis at midlife --> conversion
2. "Progressive Relationism. A life increases in meaning to the extent that it involves the challenging and successful pursuit of objectively valuable projects, in ways that draw constructively on the past." (DeBres p. 550)
    • choppy life--no progress
    • cohesive life--Tolstoy 
      • meets this condition as well, if you think his life story is a story of progress
3. "Recountism. Telling a certain kind of story about one's life contributes to the meaningfulness of the life." (DeBres p. 551)
    • choppy life -- no recounting
    • cohesive life -- Tolstoy does recount in Confession
4. "Agency Recountism. Telling a story about one's life that emphasizes one's status as an autonomous agent contributes to the meaningfulness of that life, by virtue of increasing one's sense of agency." (DeBres p. 551)
    • choppy life --no self-empowering recounting
    • cohesive life -- Tolstoy does emphasize his own role
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By all four standards
  • choppy life -- less meaningful
  • cohesive life -- more meaningful
Does that make sense?
Which is the right standard, and why? (DeBres, next time)


Wednesday, April 1, 2026

The Fitting Fufillment View

AGENDA
  1. Where are we going?
  2. Susan Wolf
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6. More accounts of meaning in life
  • Tolstoy -- union with infinite
  • Taylor -- no objective meaning, but subjective meaning
  • Wolf -- fitting fulfillment view
  • DeBres -- narrative view
    • Strawson -- against the narrative view
  • Setiya/Hahn -- seizing the day, living in the present
  • Kauppinen -- against seizing the day
7. Ultimate meaning
  • Cottingham -- The urge for transcendence
  • etc.

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Susan Wolf,  Meaning in Life and Why it Matters (2010) -- PDF

Some preliminaries

Reasons for action (p. 1-7)
  1. Happiness, pleasure
  2. Morality, doing the right thing
  3. Meaning

Aristotle's "endoxic" method (p. 10)
  1. first survey the various different "doxa" (beliefs, what people have said, the "received wisdom,")
  2. propose new theory on which -- everyone was right in some way
  3. show how theory improves on doxa --  avoids the errors
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What are the doxa on meaning in life?
  1. Do something you love! (Richard Taylor)
  2. Get involved in something "larger than yourself"! (Peter Singer)


 

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Wanted: a theory of meaning in life that integrates both Taylor and Singer
"meaning arises from loving objects worthy of love and engaging with them in a positive way" (p. 8) 
"meaning arises when subjective attraction meets objective attractiveness" (p. 9)

"the fitting fullfilment view" -- many pages

Two conditions have to be met for meaning

  1. Loving things, subjective attraction, fulfillment 
  2. Worthy of love, objective attractiveness, fitting 
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The objective worth condition

What makes something "objectively attractive"? (p. 18-23)
  • it's something "larger than oneself"
  • problem: taking care of one child or one parent could count, but isn't "larger than oneself"
Passages from article on "objectively attractive"
  • p. 19 -- other than oneself
  • p. 27 -- objective worth
  • p. 27 -- holds up from external point of view (Nagel...we will read later)
  • p. 27 -- need for self-esteem
  • p. 27 -- overcoming cosmic insignificance
  • p. 31 -- a "notional community"

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Subjective fulfillment without objective worth....silly examples (p. 9)
  1. The man who loves to copy out War and Peace by hand
  2. Some who finds counting blades of grass extremely fulfilling
  3. Someone who loves doing crossword puzzles
Subjective fulfillment without objective worth? Real world examples for discussion
  1. Looksmaxxing
  2. Free solo climbing a skyscraper
  3. Hobbies, pastimes--knitting, embroidery, pottery, carpentry, intensive cooking
  4. Better examples?
Intelligibility to others comes in degrees
  1. Can't explain to anyone
  2. Can explain only to fellow travellers/audience
  3. Can explain to almost anyone



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Is the fitting fulfillment view a plausible account of meaning in life?

Objections